People claiming step children as their own. She is MY daughter, you just happen to be married to her Mum, my left overs.

What about if their real dad was a raging alcoholic who eventually dies at 53 years of age from his addiction, and a serial mental abuser and philanderer to boot..

And then a step dad comes in and picks up the pieces, puts three kids through university and provides a stable, friendly, abuse free home, and much more.

Can I then pretend to call them my own?

The smug potential buyers on the homes in the sun programmes.Never seem to buy a place because 'were going to put a cheeky offer in' or 'were going home to think about it'.**** off!

That goes back to Maidstone Petes funand games trying to sell his place.

He has dealt with some real wankers.

If you want. They still ain't yours.

Or a raging cokehead who dies at 40 odd, after beating their mother up on various occasions, once with their daughter in their arms?

They still ain't yours, good or bad, you can't airbrush out their proper dad.

He did a good enough job of that himself. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

You can be a right ****, but be a great dad.

Why do you think I am being personal to you? I am talking about my own circumstances.

If you’re a right **** they will work it out for themselves despite what a great Dad you may think you are. (Sounds a bit aggressive, not meant to be personal)

I know a few right ***** that are brilliant dads. Also some nice ladies that are shit mums. Some step parents are magic as well, as is my own daughters step dad. The point is you shouldnt claim others offspring as your own.

Things that annoy you
 

Some people’s fixation with snap chat such as my 26 year old niece purring sun glasses and shit on her Bessie bf for about the 1000th time this year. My sister joining with the poxy pouting face whoever thought that was a good look was very much mistaken.

I imagine it can be quite funny for a 6 year old a few times but for adults the novelty must wear off at some point

My missus and daughter spend hour after hour on that and never get bored. Just an extension of the whole selfie horror show.

Vanity and the need for approval of your physical appearance from others doesn’t wear off easily for some people unfortunately.

I have been known to pick players from whoever Palace are playing knowing full well I will jinx them into not scoring.

That is probably the most wrong you have ever been on the BBS.

If you ever get the chance, you can ask them. I am sure they are best placed to decide.

Nobody is doing that on here. Not in a biological sense.

Our kids had full access to their father, to the point that he was often invited to our house. We tried to provide the support to get him off the booze, but other peoples influences didnt help.

I am not sure what you can do when he turns up drunk at 10am asking his teenage kids for money to buy more booze.

But still, he was a great dad.

He was a great dad when we spent a day in the church for his wake and his kids had to bury him at 52/53. I am sure they were grateful for my support sitting in the church with them and paying for the funeral. But no, steppy doesnt count for jack shit.

Free speech. So overrated. Glad we have the BBS internet bandwagon police on hand to shut it down.

There are an awful lot of shit biological fathers. Just because a person has managed a squirt during a late night fumble, doesnt mean he is man enough to take responsibility for the next twenty odd years, as many a woman would testify.

Some of them have absolutely no right to be called Dad.