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little al 26-12-2017 03:09 PM

People claiming step children as their own. She is MY daughter, you just happen to be married to her Mum, my left overs.

PeterH 26-12-2017 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by little al (Post 14012470)
People claiming step children as their own. She is MY daughter, you just happen to be married to her Mum, my left overs.

What about if their real dad was a raging alcoholic who eventually dies at 53 years of age from his addiction, and a serial mental abuser and philanderer to boot..

And then a step dad comes in and picks up the pieces, puts three kids through university and provides a stable, friendly, abuse free home, and much more.

Can I then pretend to call them my own?

Se9 eagles 26-12-2017 03:34 PM

The smug potential buyers on the homes in the sun programmes.Never seem to buy a place because 'were going to put a cheeky offer in' or 'were going home to think about it'.**** off!

PeterH 26-12-2017 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Se9 eagles (Post 14012491)
The smug potential buyers on the homes in the sun programmes.Never seem to buy a place because 'were going to put a cheeky offer in' or 'were going home to think about it'.**** off!

That goes back to Maidstone Petes funand games trying to sell his place.

He has dealt with some real wankers.

little al 26-12-2017 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by PeterH (Post 14012488)
What about if their real dad was a raging alcoholic who eventually dies at 53 years of age from his addiction, and a serial mental abuser and philanderer to boot..

And then a step dad comes in and picks up the pieces, puts three kids through university and provides a stable, friendly, abuse free home, and much more.

Can I then pretend to call them my own?

If you want. They still ain't yours.

Maidstoned Eagle 26-12-2017 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by PeterH (Post 14012488)
What about if their real dad was a raging alcoholic who eventually dies at 53 years of age from his addiction, and a serial mental abuser and philanderer to boot..

And then a step dad comes in and picks up the pieces, puts three kids through university and provides a stable, friendly, abuse free home, and much more.

Can I then pretend to call them my own?

Or a raging cokehead who dies at 40 odd, after beating their mother up on various occasions, once with their daughter in their arms?

little al 26-12-2017 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Maidstoned Eagle (Post 14012787)
Or a raging cokehead who dies at 40 odd, after beating their mother up on various occasions, once with their daughter in their arms?

They still ain't yours, good or bad, you can't airbrush out their proper dad.

Maidstoned Eagle 26-12-2017 06:42 PM

He did a good enough job of that himself. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

little al 26-12-2017 06:43 PM

You can be a right ****, but be a great dad.

little al 26-12-2017 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Maidstoned Eagle (Post 14012797)
He did a good enough job of that himself. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Why do you think I am being personal to you? I am talking about my own circumstances.

Wolfnipplechips 26-12-2017 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by little al (Post 14012799)
You can be a right ****, but be a great dad.

If you’re a right **** they will work it out for themselves despite what a great Dad you may think you are. (Sounds a bit aggressive, not meant to be personal)

little al 26-12-2017 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Wolfnipplechips (Post 14012801)
If you’re a right **** they will work it out for themselves despite what a great Dad you may think you are. (Sounds a bit aggressive, not meant to be personal)

I know a few right ***** that are brilliant dads. Also some nice ladies that are shit mums. Some step parents are magic as well, as is my own daughters step dad. The point is you shouldnt claim others offspring as your own.

cantspell 26-12-2017 07:11 PM

Things that annoy you
 
Some people’s fixation with snap chat such as my 26 year old niece purring sun glasses and shit on her Bessie bf for about the 1000th time this year. My sister joining with the poxy pouting face whoever thought that was a good look was very much mistaken.

I imagine it can be quite funny for a 6 year old a few times but for adults the novelty must wear off at some point

CamberleyEagle 26-12-2017 08:22 PM

My missus and daughter spend hour after hour on that and never get bored. Just an extension of the whole selfie horror show.

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Originally Posted by cantspell (Post 14012840)
Some people’s fixation with snap chat such as my 26 year old niece purring sun glasses and shit on her Bessie bf for about the 1000th time this year. My sister joining with the poxy pouting face whoever thought that was a good look was very much mistaken.

I imagine it can be quite funny for a 6 year old a few times but for adults the novelty must wear off at some point


CP-RJW 26-12-2017 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by cantspell (Post 14012840)
Some people’s fixation with snap chat such as my 26 year old niece purring sun glasses and shit on her Bessie bf for about the 1000th time this year. My sister joining with the poxy pouting face whoever thought that was a good look was very much mistaken.

I imagine it can be quite funny for a 6 year old a few times but for adults the novelty must wear off at some point

Vanity and the need for approval of your physical appearance from others doesn’t wear off easily for some people unfortunately.

CT_Palace 26-12-2017 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by glenn.f (Post 14012289)
Taking Harry Kane out of my Fantasy League team a couple of weeks ago, when i swore blind it was Aguero i'd shifted out, and watching him now rack up his fifth goal in 130 mins of football while i'm sat here with Callum bloody Wilson, Aguero and a no doubt injured Moratta as alternatives. Fantasy football is such a wind up.

I have been known to pick players from whoever Palace are playing knowing full well I will jinx them into not scoring.

PeterH 26-12-2017 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by little al (Post 14012764)
If you want. They still ain't yours.

That is probably the most wrong you have ever been on the BBS.

If you ever get the chance, you can ask them. I am sure they are best placed to decide.

PeterH 26-12-2017 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by little al (Post 14012810)
I know a few right ***** that are brilliant dads. Also some nice ladies that are shit mums. Some step parents are magic as well, as is my own daughters step dad. The point is you shouldnt claim others offspring as your own.

Nobody is doing that on here. Not in a biological sense.

Our kids had full access to their father, to the point that he was often invited to our house. We tried to provide the support to get him off the booze, but other peoples influences didnt help.

I am not sure what you can do when he turns up drunk at 10am asking his teenage kids for money to buy more booze.

But still, he was a great dad.

He was a great dad when we spent a day in the church for his wake and his kids had to bury him at 52/53. I am sure they were grateful for my support sitting in the church with them and paying for the funeral. But no, steppy doesnt count for jack shit.

elgin eagle 26-12-2017 10:09 PM

Free speech. So overrated. Glad we have the BBS internet bandwagon police on hand to shut it down.

PeterH 26-12-2017 10:15 PM

There are an awful lot of shit biological fathers. Just because a person has managed a squirt during a late night fumble, doesnt mean he is man enough to take responsibility for the next twenty odd years, as many a woman would testify.

Some of them have absolutely no right to be called Dad.


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